Unfilteredd: Narcissistic Partners

Why Does Dating a Narcissist Feel Like an Addiction? - Ep 2

Juliana sits down with Monica L. Amorosi to answer a question from our community about why dating a narcissist feels like an addiction.
If you have experienced or are currently experiencing narcissistic abuse, please visit our website to learn how we can help you: https://unfilteredd.net
Resources Mentioned:
How to Break a Trauma Bond (Series)
What Is a Trauma Bond and How Does It Affect You? (Blog)
How to Break a Trauma Bond (Blog)
Connect with Monica L. Amorosi: https://www.claritytherapynyc.com/nyc-therapist/monica-amorosi-lmhc-cctp/
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10 Painful Lessons from Being Married to a Narcissist - Ep 1

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In this episode, Unfilteredd sits down with Chelsey Brooke Cole to dive into the 10 lessons our community members wish they had learned sooner about being married to a narcissist.
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TIMESTAMPS:
(01:08) They Withhold Intimacy and Affection
(04:48) Your Independence Threatens Them
(09:07) Your Memory Isn't Failing You
(13:42) They Exploit Your Mental Health Struggles
(19:52) They Sabotage Your Relationships
(26:19) They Turn Kindness Into a Liability
(30:06) They Take Pleasure in Your Pain
(34:53) Their Apologies Are Attacks in Disguise
(39:23) They Weaponize Your Vulnerabilities
(44:23) Loneliness Feels Different in an Abusive Relationship
 
 
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🔔 Remember: This podcast should not be used as a substitute for medical or mental health advice. Individuals are advised to seek independent medical advice, counseling, and/or therapy from a healthcare professional with respect to any medical condition, mental health issue, or health inquiry, including matters discussed on this podcast.

Let Go of Rescuer Syndrome with These 5 Simple Strategies (Ep 136)

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In this episode, Emily Phelps, a psychotherapist specializing in narcissistic abuse recovery, will share strategies to help you address rescuer syndrome, a struggle many survivors of narcissistic abuse face, so you can build a life that truly reflects who you want to be.
🔔 Remember: This content is for educational purposes only and should not be used as a substitute for medical or mental health advice.
Timestamps:
(00:02:00) Shift your mindset
(00:05:22) Become super self-aware
(00:10:15) Set boundaries
(00:16:16) Set clear goals for yourself
(00:21:55) Remember the past so you don’t repeat
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What to Do If You’re Always Anxious About Being Perfect (Ep 135)

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In this episode, Hannah Alderete, a Licensed Mental Health Counselor from New York, will explain why children of narcissistic parents may struggle with perfectionism and share strategies to help you address these tendencies.
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If You Grew Up in a Narcissistic Family and Always Feel Like You're in Trouble, Here's Why (Ep 134)

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In this episode, Mahtaab Khanjari, a Marriage and Family Therapist, will explain how the various psychological, behavioral, and physical impacts of growing up in a narcissistic family all contribute to the persistent feeling of being in trouble in adulthood.
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Here’s Why Narcissistic Abuse Isn’t Your Fault (Ep 133)

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In this episode, Monica L. Amorosi, a Licensed Mental Health Counselor from New York, will walk you through the very specific way narcissists are made to help you see why the abuse you experienced isn’t your fault.
 
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How Narcissists Weaponize Therapy: A Therapist's Warning (Ep 132)

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In this episode, Jennifer Parrella, a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor from Virginia, will explain why narcissists in therapy can be so dangerous and how you can determine whether or not the narcissist in your life is using therapy to control or manipulate you.
 
Timestamps:
(00:00:48) Why Narcissists in Therapy Can Be So Dangerous
(00:04:20) How to Tell if a Narcissist Is Using Therapy to Control and Manipulate You
 
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Therapist Reveals 9 Ways Narcissists Abuse Their Partners (Ep 131)

If you want to learn more about romantic narcissistic relationships, go here: https://unfilteredd.net/narcissistic-abuse-in-romantic-relationships/
In this episode, Monica Amorosi, a Licensed Mental Health Counselor from New York, will reveal nine different ways narcissists abuse their partners.
Timestamps:
(00:00:39) Manipulation
(00:02:05) Physical Abuse
(00:03:18) Financial Abuse
(00:04:18) Reputational Damage
(00:05:44) Sabotage
(00:06:52) Sexual Abuse
(00:08:48) Crossing Boundaries
(00:09:22) Masking and Feigning
(00:10:13) Trapping
 
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Podcast Music: Creative Commons Music by Jason Shaw on Audionautix.com

5 Ways to Overcome the Self-Doubt Narcissistic Abuse Causes (Ep 130)

If you want to learn more about healing from narcissistic abuse, go here: https://unfilteredd.net/healing-from-narcissistic-abuse/
In this episode, Alexandra Skinner Walsh, a Licensed Mental Health Counselor from Iowa with just over a decade of experience, will guide you through five strategies you can start using today to overcome the self-doubt narcissistic abuse causes.
🔔 Remember: This content is for educational purposes only and should not be used as a substitute for medical or mental health advice.
Timestamps:
(00:01:10) Build Your Supports
(00:08:44) Find Your Authentic Voice
(00:16:22) Recognize the Self-Doubt and Understand Its Impact
(00:24:04) Separate Confidence from Narcissism
(00:29:08) Know and Trust Yourself
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5 Ways Narcissistic Parents Act (Ep 129)

If you think one of your parents might be a narcissist, you're in the right place. In today's episode, Leanne Cameron, a therapist who has 50 years of experience with narcissistic parents in both her personal and professional life, will walk us through five behavior patterns that these types of parents typically engage in.
Timestamps:
They create a family narrative that enforces loyalty through guilt and enmeshment. (00:00:44)
They place the burden of their emotional well-being and needs on their children. (00:11:05)
They show little respect for personal boundaries, ignoring the autonomy and individuality of family members. (00:20:36)
They foster competition and insecurity within the family to enjoy the resulting drama and chaos. (00:29:59)
They present a charming persona to the public, contrasting with their behavior at home. (00:41:20)
This content is for educational purposes only and should not be used as a substitute for medical or mental health advice.
 
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